Interview with CupidsCloset69
How long have you been selling your used panties and what inspired you to begin?

I have been selling panties and other fetish items since August 2018. I honestly started by googling "Ways to make money on the side". It started out as just a way to make a quick buck, but has become so much more than that. My confidence has grown so much in doing this and that alone has helped me in other parts of my life.

Do you do any other type of adult work?

I have actually worked in the adult industry for a very long time. 12 years to be exact. I sell porn and porn accessories lol which is just a funny way of saying I'm a cashier at a porn store. 😉

What do you enjoy most about selling worn panties?

Honestly just the fact that someone is willing to pay their hard earned money to basically smell or taste something that touched my body is extremely flattering. It makes me feel so very feminine and sexy. I love building relationships with my clients. Getting to know them on a level that sometimes even the closest people in their lives have no clue about. It makes me feel incredibly honored.

Do you ever get requests that are too extreme for you?

I have definitely had some pretty extreme requests in my time. The way I see it, if you're brave enough to come to me with such an extreme request and you're polite in doing so, then I should at least be nice enough to hear you out. It takes a lot of courage to open up to someone about things like this. Especially a complete stranger. Even if it is online.

Any of your friends or family know or is this a secret pursuit for you?

I have lots of friends and family that know. I kind of pick and choose who I tell based on how well I know them. Some people are cool with it and others, not so much. I live in bible belt country and I'm a preacher's daughter. 😂

What do you do for fun in your spare time?

Well, I am a very complex woman. Southern Belle mixed in with some Thomboy. I like to be feminine and get my hair and nails done. Dress really pretty, sweet as can be. I love to cook, sew, crochet, read. At the same time, I'm a crack shot with any of my guns at 250 yards. I like to fish, hunt, go muddin. I help my daddy on his farm with the animals, crops, muckin out stalls etc. I love music, depends on my mood that day what I'm listening to. I would say my favorite is rock though. Bands like Metallica, ACDC, Black Sabbath, Otep, Avenged Sevenfold, 5FDP. Then there are days I just love listening to instrumentals, especially violin or piano. I love going to the gym and staying active any way that I can. I don't have any children, but my dogs are my babies. I have a Pitbull, a Bully and 2 Chihuahuas. I collect movies. All different genre's. I think I have about 450 right now.

What do you think contributes most to your success in this business?

I think mostly the fact that I'm Southern 😂 I have that sweet southern charm mixed with a lot of sass and I'm honest to a T. Some people don't like that about me, others love it. I don't sugar coat shit, but I always try to be pleasant and just chat with people. Get to know them.

What’s the best advice you could give to new sellers?

Oh Lord, Bless their little hearts. I am very supportive of other sellers. I welcome any of Y'all to ask me any questions you would like. Some may not like what I have to say, but I'm gonna say it. APPRECIATE YOURSELF! Please, don't lower your prices or your standards because these men tell you that they are too high. Don't let them haggle you. You are worth so much. Don't let anyone walk all over you. Be fair in your prices, but be firm. We all need to stick together and help each other in this business. Don't try to compete with each other. Lift each other up. There are all different types of buyers and all different types of sellers. I may offer something you do not, or vice versa.

How does Scented Pansy compare to other panty selling sites?

I love SP more than any other site I've been a member of. It's easy to use. People are friendly for the most part and our Admin does a wonderful job of removing trouble-makers and time wasters.

Anything on your mind that you'd like to express that wasn't addressed in the interview?

I am going to repeat myself here on a few things. Ladies, please value yourselves, your time & your bodies. Don't lower your prices or your standards just because some of these buyers are, shall we say "less than charming" about buying from you. Remember, THEY contacted YOU. They like what they see or they wouldn't have contacted you. That being said, please also be honest with your buyers. If you are going to take their money, then please keep your word and follow through with the order. Lying and scamming makes it harder on all of us other sellers because when a buyer is scammed, even for a small amount of money, they lose confidence in all of us. Not just you. We all need to work together to maintain a stable and pleasant place here where we can have fun and make a little money.